Posted: Sun Nov 16, 2003 6:34 am
In response to Tommi's assertion that there are a lack of MARPers reacting to Hisa. I, for one, tend to just roll my eyes at the exchanges that go on here in regards to the great info supplyer. I'm sure I'm not alone on this. My reasoning is fairly simple why I don't chime in with comments of my own. After observing Hisa's approach to socializing it becomes crystal clear that he suffers from a lack of social skills and/or really likes to get under people's skin. I think it's a combination of both. From where I stand, he really sinks his teeth into you once you've let it be known that it bothers you. Reminds me a bit of how animals can detect certain human emotions and will act accordingly. Try to remember that his words are only that...words.
Yes, he has a propensity to spew foul language on this board. However, his English language skills are barely passible thus limiting his expressions severely. In short, he makes himself look poorly in the eyes of others when he is in constant pursuit of agitating whomever strikes his fancy...namely those who give into his immature manner in which he chooses to communicate with others.
He has a great deal to contribute to MARP. That is a shame as his contributions often seem muddled amidst his ongoing barrage of insults. Quite a shame.
I'm in agreement with Barry and Alex. There are a lot worse out there. Believe me. I've been around 44 years with nearly half of those years spent in a business where poor social behavior is the norm. You either learn to find a way to recognize and deal with it or let a person such as this drive you crazy which he is obviously doing to some. It ain't worth it!
Minor heated exchanges are expected when humans communicate. But, this is nothing short of a simple case of childish behavior. Don't sink to his level. He'll never admit it in a million years, but that's what trips his trigger/ gets him off/ whatever. I know it's not easy when you're the one in his sights. But, believe me, ignoring him when it begins to get heated is the lesser of the two evils in this case. Know when to walk away. Ignoring him would probably get under his skin more than you'll ever know. If you decide to respond to him, just know that his behavior is boring and predictable. There will be the schoolboy pointing and shouting routine. Just let him stand there and make a spectacle of himself. The rest of us know where you that are under attack stand in regards to your stature at MARP. Don't sweat it. I would rather have Hisa engage in constructive dialogue here rather than this load of garbage. I know he can do it. He's shown it before.
Just my inflated two cents worth...for what it's worth.
Yes, he has a propensity to spew foul language on this board. However, his English language skills are barely passible thus limiting his expressions severely. In short, he makes himself look poorly in the eyes of others when he is in constant pursuit of agitating whomever strikes his fancy...namely those who give into his immature manner in which he chooses to communicate with others.
He has a great deal to contribute to MARP. That is a shame as his contributions often seem muddled amidst his ongoing barrage of insults. Quite a shame.
I'm in agreement with Barry and Alex. There are a lot worse out there. Believe me. I've been around 44 years with nearly half of those years spent in a business where poor social behavior is the norm. You either learn to find a way to recognize and deal with it or let a person such as this drive you crazy which he is obviously doing to some. It ain't worth it!
Minor heated exchanges are expected when humans communicate. But, this is nothing short of a simple case of childish behavior. Don't sink to his level. He'll never admit it in a million years, but that's what trips his trigger/ gets him off/ whatever. I know it's not easy when you're the one in his sights. But, believe me, ignoring him when it begins to get heated is the lesser of the two evils in this case. Know when to walk away. Ignoring him would probably get under his skin more than you'll ever know. If you decide to respond to him, just know that his behavior is boring and predictable. There will be the schoolboy pointing and shouting routine. Just let him stand there and make a spectacle of himself. The rest of us know where you that are under attack stand in regards to your stature at MARP. Don't sweat it. I would rather have Hisa engage in constructive dialogue here rather than this load of garbage. I know he can do it. He's shown it before.
Just my inflated two cents worth...for what it's worth.